the X-Factor

Girls are ridiculous. They hang out with guys, call them, flirt with them, and then they get angry when the guy tries to make a move. Girls just don't understand that guys interperate niceness as flirting. Why? Because of the X-factor. What is the X-factor? It is the reason that guys hang out with girls. You can ask anyone (boy or girl) who is more fun to hang out with: a group of boys or a group of girls. 99.9% of the time the answer is boys. So if guys are more fun what motivation do they have to hang out with girls? There must be something that girls can offer that guys can't. Hmmm...What could that be? The only reason that guys hang out with girls is because of sexual intrest. The intrest isn't always for the girl herself, sometimes it is for friends, roommates or even a sister, but the point is there is always an alternitive motive. I know that girls don't want to hear it but theyneed to get it through they heads. Giving out phone numbers is considered flirting. Calling "just to say hi" is considered flirting. Calling (period) is considered flirting. I'm sorry. I know that you don't like to hear it but it's true. If you don't believe it, You're wrong.

Settling

If you live in provo I know that you have heard countless lectures about courtship and marriage. They always talk about the same major points. What always strikes me as odd about these talks is that they talk about dating as if they are REMINDING the men about it...because we don't think about it every 7 seconds anyway. The problem isn't we are forgetting to date. The problem is that we don't like our dates (or they don't like us). The next part of the lecture is about the people who getting too "old" for Provo. "Why aren't you married?" If you think about it the question is retarded. They aren't married because the haven't found someone that they like enough. Inevitably someone will say "you aren't married because you are to picky!" What the hell is that supposed to mean. Should we SETTLE on someone that we kind of like. If we did that we would regret it the rest of our lifes. How would like to be the person that was settled upon? "My wife/husband didn't think that he/she would do any better..." Not me. Call it picky if you want. I call it self respect.