It is easy to assume upon seeing an effeminate male that said male is homosexual, and these assumptions are often made, even if in jest. The easiest way for a male to prove that he is not homosexual is for him to have a girlfriend. For some reason, once the male has a girlfriend, all of his behavior, however gay he may act, is explained as personality quirks. The heterosexual relationship, ironically, makes the male more free to act gay.
The more testosterone-driven males that would otherwise be prone to mockery are dissuaded based on the effeminate's superior performance as a heterosexual, even if they remain puzzled by the apparently-gay male's success with women. The advantage the former has is (surprisingly, for some) in the effeminateness itself. As homosexuality is considered a sin by the local religion and culture, the local females have a tendency to take it upon themselves to try and "cure" the apparently-gay males by wooing them into a heterosexual relationship.
The result of this is that the easiest way for a male to win the attention of some local females is for him to act in an ambiguously-gay manner. So, whenever a heterosexual male notices (perhaps with some degree of jealousy) an effeminate male that has no trouble finding a girlfriend, he should remember that the situation only serves to prove that he would be better off gay.
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Or maybe better off personable?
I think "effeminate" guys are more personable than "manly" men, and that's part of the reason why they're more succesful. Women love to talk. Chatty=good. Effeminate men=chatty. "Manly" men= strong, silent type. Me woman. Me no likey strong, silent type.
A. Effeminate is not the same as personable.
B. Personable is not the same as chatty.
C. You are dumb.
Hey hey hey. Your name is Bale. You cannot use ad hominum attacks. Idiot.
You misspelled "ad hominem." Now point C is proven objectively.
Oh no! Someone named Bale questioned my intelligence when I misspelled a Latin idiom! Somebody call the self-esteem doctor, because mine's about to die!
And yes, I realize that it's an ambiguous pronoun reference. Live with it.
Where do you live? I just can't relate to this observation.
Where I live, women know better than to try to turn a gay. We just go shopping with them!
ex. My brother is such a right winger that when he learned that I have a number of gay male friends he was mortified... When I challenged with the question of whether I was supposed to end a friendship with someone I cared for just because I learned he's gay - and that nothing else had changed - my brother asserted that I should be working to CHANGE him.
Ha. Honey if I could change a gay man, I'd be the richest woman in America - AND I'D BE MARRIED!
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